Ego in any Relationship is very dangerous
and unhealthy. It is one of the most common attribute that destroys millions of
relationships daily, especially a Romantic one.
My name is Jones
(not real name), I am 34 years old and married to a wonderful lady. I couldn't
have wished for a better spouse. The moment I first saw her, I knew I’d love to
spend the rest of my life with her. We got married January 2016 and everything
has been wonderful but (and there is always a 'But' in almost everything) the
problem I am facing is her EGO. My God! That is so killing me.
A quick preview:
we met and married after about 8 months from our first meeting, I so wanted to
settle down and considering the kind of tolerant person I am, I knew I could
leave with anyone. She was introduced to me by my elder sister and so I trusted
her judgement and I'm yet to really regret it though, but just how do I get rid
of this pride and ego she has before it destroys us. She kind of act too full
of herself, always wanting to be right, she would rather let the relationship
go South than apologies, does not like being instructed as it might make her
feel being Bossed around. The list just goes on as long as her ego is at stake.
Dear RTers just
how do I tame an Egoistic wife? I kind if I followed the same line with her,
our Marriage would be over in no distant time.
That's what u signed up for whenu didn't study her for long before marrying her. Deal with it....you can't change her
ReplyDeletePerhaps your family should not have chosen for you. You should have followed your heart and not recommendation.
ReplyDeletekeep praying and talk to her about it, with God all things are possible. All the Best!
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